Like many on here my wife is also shy when it comes to sexual things of this nature and like many husbands I am trying to open her up. She really enjoys todp and says it's very 'woman friendly' which has helped a lot in our fantasies and night fun. Mostly we talk about doing it in public and the car but this last week she suprised me big time! While we were naked and I was fingering her I asked her what she was thinking about and she blurted out that she was thinking my finger was another man's! I was almost in shock. After saying that she came HARD and then shivered for what seemed like minutes. She apologized right away but I told her not to and that it turned me on too.
We talked about that some more and I suggested we take some pictures of her and post them on todp and see what people think of it and immediately she got horny again and was shaking and said 'ok'. After we took these (and added a few more) we sent them off and she again asked to be fingered and I told her our next step was to chat nude with others for the fun of it without commitment and she came HARD again.
We'd love to hear your thoughts and remember that she is still new to this so she'll be taking things slowly.