We are quite new to all of this but are having a blast. In our first experience with anything sexual other than with each other we found a couple online and had a same room/same partner experience and we never laid a finger on them nor them on us. Even though many would not have thought that was much of a "swinger" experience we were both pretty blown away as we were both so traditional and conservative.
The next morning our faces hurt from grinning so much and every time we looked at each other we burst out in laughter and couldn't keep our hands off of each other. We realized then how powerfull the swinging experience can be for a couple and felt fortunate that our first experience was positive.
We also realized that if it had been equally as powerfull but negative that it would be quite devastating. So we learned the value of respect for the swinging experience and learned that it is something to be respected at all times and that if things go badly that it can be quite harmfull so go SLOW.
We are about to set up our next meeting with someone new and can't wait. In our excitment we wanted to share some of our profile pictures to 'warm' us up! - SoftSwappers
