THE TODP FAMILY
Got an Email from a couple who recently submitted a Dare.
First off I'd like to thank that couple for sending in such an email. I've gotten a few like it over the 20+ years the site has been operating and I never tire of getting them. I am proud of what the site has become, and proud of every TODP fan or poster who shares the same values around sexuality, to really make the site what it is and what it has become.
The email mentioned that I respect women and I do. But more accurately, I respect people. Any website in any genre, whether adult or not, would have me creating a space where people can be genuine and honest, vulnerable and open, and it all be okay.
We all grew up with messages that had us feeling 'not okay' about expressing ourselves in any capacity. And it goes double for sexuality. Yes, sex can be harmful if expressed in a hostile way but the same thing can be said of almost anything on this planet from money, to education, and even charities.
Sex as a Loving Act
Sex is a loving act, in the same way saying 'hello' to your neighbor is. Both are expressions of affection. I know that many adult sites and some adult movies portray sex in a way that doesn't seem very warm, caring and fun. A woman flashing her boobs to a total stranger, having a threesome, or having multiple men cum all over her face, can all be warm and loving acts. It's the intention behind it that counts. The act is meaningless alone.
It is loving and caring when everyone involved are all respecting and enjoying themselves and each other first and foremost. Once that's established, dirty talk, wet pussies, hard penises and orgies are all fair game.
Almost everyone here at TODP gets that and enjoys sex the same way. Men are not pigs for wanting to see naked women, and women are not sluts because they enjoy showing off for men. We'll leave that view of sexuality for those who live sad lives, while we choose our own view of what's right or wrong when it comes to sex and men & women which is; it's a beautiful thing.
Thank you TODP Family
All of us here at TODP come back time and time again because of the tight knit, community feel it has. It is a place where everyone can enjoy their sexuality and feel like their expression of it is good, that sex is good, and that they in turn, are good.This is how all of life should be and you have all created that reality on this corner of the internet and have inspired many other people to join in.
A big thank you to all the ladies who have put themselves out there and inspired others to do the same, and also a big thank you to all the men who have responded to those ladies with encouragement and desire for them.
All I did was provide the space, but you all made it happen.
Keep on daring and never stop. Life is too short not to.
- Webmaster
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