My wife, after lots of talking has told me she wants me to take control a bit more and for her to be submissive and do what she's told. This is in the bedroom only of course. Outside of it she is on a mission in life! So we talked about what she wants and have had a great time trying new things out.
I first tied her up and that went well. Then I made her flash while we went shopping and in the car. I also told her about TODP and told her to play with herself while I take pictures to post. That made her cum within minutes.
We're now looking online to see if we can find a man to play with her. It will be limited at first, just light touching but who knows from there.