Using my hands is definitely the most intense and longest orgasm-producing method for me, although I'm a bit self-conscious about my clit--it seems to be very small.
As a child, I had many sexual contacts with my girlfriends, but none led to orgasm, because we didn't know that we had clits, much less what to do with them. So we'd get in between each other's legs and shine a flashlight on our genitals. Some girlfriends would open their lips, and I'd do the same. The light shining on a hairless, open vulva is a very predominant and fond memory, and those memories play largely in my fantasies, even now.
I love to have no panties on, and the feel of spreading my legs to feel my lips open is delightful. When I masturbate, I open my lips as far as they can go with my right hand and begin to stroke my pussy with the middle finger of my left hand, usually remembering all my childhood sexual experiences. As the juices begin to flow, I hold my lips wide open, and if there's a breeze caressing my pussy, so much the better. I pull my lips up, to completely expose my clit, then rub directly on my clit until I come.
I often wish I had a female friend to just masturbate with, to watch (and watch me), especially now that I know about such a wonderful thing, like my clit! This was me this summer touching myself outside and taking a pic as a dare for a chat session I had.
Marie - 28