I met a few girls online. Here is a picture that one of them sent me before we met. But really the process is simple, e-mail or chat room first, then PM (or IM). If that goes well and I don't deem her a psycho, I will talk to her on the phone, if that goes well and once again I don't deem her a psycho, I will suggest meeting for coffee. This process takes several days to several weeks. It works pretty good. In fact, a few times the woman showed up and she was better looking than in her picture. - Jimmy