I confess...I took the plunge. ;)
I got thrown a jaw dropping "fantasy" from my wife about two weeks ago, and she seems really into wanting me to do this.
My wife and I are married 7 years. Shes 39 Im 43. She’s 5’7”, long brown hair, and has big natural breasts. Attractive curvy woman.
We have a good sex life. Get kinky, post pics to her own dating profiles for feedback from people only, etc. We have our fun. After sex one nite about two weeks ago, she says it would turn us both on if I were to watch her with her ex, fuck her in front of me. She says her sister's friend did it and it changed her sex life with her husband. The thing is, I know what her sex life was like with this guy. Rough and degrading. She was tied up, pounded hard, hair pulled, verbally degraded, real wild stuff. She said I would really get off on seeing this. I'm new to this and so I figured I would post here.
We have been talking about it almost every nite, texting through the day, etc. After discussing and agreeing that no jealousy or feelings would be mixed in with this, I have agreed to go through with it. We have a good solid marriage and I have heard things like this taking sex to new levels. We are on for next Saturday nite. It will not happen at my house, or his place of course, we will go to a hotel.
We all met for coffee at a local starbucks earlier this week and discussed it out as adults. One time thing, no feelings, just sex, etc. We then went out after to our local adult shop and he treated her to some thing she will wear. Black thigh high boots, a mesh top and some long latest gloves. These are the things she wore for him during their time together. Talking about it so much had me all excited about it and I think it would be a great turn on. I know things like this can ruin relationships but I know what we have.
I really hope things are at a higher more exciting level after this with our sex life, as Im looking forward to this and my sex life after that.
I'll post again when it happens.