Myself and my husband entered the swinging scene several years ago, we have played with couples, single females and guys, TS/TV and have no hangups or secrets.
However we have to be discreet because of jobs and the UK being so prudish!
So I am submissive to my husband when we play, I like to be blindfolded, have a stranger walk in and just use me as a sex toy and then leave.
The intimacy isn't what I want we both like base uncomplicated sex and when we play we act out this for our reasons of fun and fulfillment.
Not for everyone we know, but we do not judge other and do not want to be judged.
I guess my ultimate fantasy I have shared already about being paraded and groped at a party serving food in underwear, my other darkest fantasy is to be tipsy and be used by a group of older men as C**dump who just grope me and use me for their own pleasure whilst I am blindfolded, not knowing how old they are or what they look like.
This alone makes me horny just sharing the idea, the men must know and realize it's wrong to use a 40yo woman who they wouldn't normally have the opportunity to use, knowing i wouldn't normally look at them twice but they can't control themselves they just need to use me.
Hubby would direct them depending how well Endowed they are to use what holes they want and just unload inside me or over me, whilst others are waiting their turn trapping, groping and hands all over me, me not knowing how many there are and how many are left to cum.
One day if the south of England has a party or a nudist event it may happen but we still live in hope...